Laughing at the memory comes easily now (I wonder whatever happened to that poor guy? I detested the awkward adolescent feelings, and I resented having to return to the dating world. Dating slapped reality into my shattered heart and forced me to admit the painful truth of my deceased marriage.Adapting to the dating world again doesn’t have to be as excruciating as my experience.As a dating coach/expert, what do you think of the idea of dating someone who is still in the process of divorce?Do you advise your clients to take the date or run as quick as possible?“If I had a gun right now I’d shoot you, and my ex-husband.” No words were verbalized but the hazardous thoughts charged through my brain.
I am divorced and have been for two years and am of the opinion that there is too much other stuff going on in one’s life during a divorce to date, as well.So you are legally married and you cannot be married to more than one person - legally or religiously.Once you are divorced, you may then marry a Muslim man.You had too much going on during your divorce to possibly consider dating. This same script, I’m reminded, played out in the life of one of my favorite clients who fell in love with a separated man.Therefore, you seem to think all men should feel the same way. But you are correct in proceeding with a sense of caution. Not because he listed himself as divorced but is really separated. He gave a lot to her during their time together, but, when it got right down to it, he really needed to sow his oats for awhile.